Hey!

So I’ve spent the previous few days immersing myself in relationship coach Katarina Phang’s applications and youtube movies. Katarina’s e-book “He’s Actually That Into You, He’s Simply Not Prepared” got here out in 2012 and he or she has been an lively and influential relationship coach since then. I keep in mind coming throughout her work in 2016 after I was starting my therapeutic journey and my weblog. I additionally keep in mind I didn’t really feel a connection together with her work so I continued to focus my consideration on the works of Christian Carter, Rori Raye, Kristina Marchant, Mathew Boggs and Pat Allen. I discovered a lot in these years from these great coaches and I used to be in a position to remodel the connection with my EUM (emotionally unavailable man) into a good looking dedication and marriage in September of 2017 (see my pic above). Now that I’m married and settled in I went on the hunt to be taught extra about this entire relationship teaching enterprise and neighborhood. That is when I discovered Katarina once more. Let me first say she might be not for everybody. She could be very direct and really religious which might be be off placing to some. At first I used to be resistant and didn’t take her significantly, however as I rigorously listened to her YouTube movies I spotted she was actually on to one thing. Her applications and work usually are not essentially totally different from the coach’s I point out above, though she has a special viewpoint on communication and intercourse. Her important teachings focus on, the artwork of leaning again, female and masculine power, the artwork of controlling your feelings and detaching from the ego thoughts. As everyone knows these are the holy grail ideas within the relationship teaching neighborhood. The factor that makes her totally different is her strategy to therapeutic and fixing relationship points. She has a really Japanese philosophical strategy that facilities across the understanding that relationships are the autos for private transformation and therapeutic (I ALWAYS FELT THIS TO BE TRUE). She additionally teaches that it’s the deranged and chaotic egoic thoughts that causes all our issues. She teaches {that a} lady should heal her personal thoughts earlier than she will have a loving and dedicated relationship (THIS IS ALSO THE MAIN TEACHING IN MY COACHING YAY!). This therapeutic takes place when a girl grows in consciousness and distances herself from the crazed pondering patterns developed by unmet wants in childhood. Katarina preaches {that a} lady should develop her TRUE self (religious self) that’s non-reactive, centered in consciousness and exudes loving female power in an effort to appeal to man and love. She additionally says that any EUM can remodel from a frog into prince when a girl does her internal work and her habits and power modifications. So with all this stated – I LIKE HER!!!! She resonates with my work and training philosophies. She gained me over as a result of the internal work she describes is what I utilized in my life and what modified my relationship from terrible to stunning. Katarina is real and has a deep understanding of true relationship dynamics and deep internal therapeutic. Possibly it’s her straightforwardness, her infinite speak about engagements she helped to create, her japanese philosophical like options, or that she movies her youtube movies sipping a glass of champagne (This was significantly the second I made a decision she was for me lol!), both means she is the true deal and I like her. Simply thought I’d share this with you all. I’ll write extra about her teachings in future blogs!

A lot Love,

Malena

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