Yesterday, I heard certainly one of my favourite non secular academics, Marianne Williamson, say “Actually loving somebody means they be at liberty in a relationship with you.” One thing about this resonated deeply with my concepts about “The Artwork of Loving a Man.” Might a person’s attraction, devotion and dedication to you be depending on the extent of freedom he feels within the relationship? After I say freedom I’m referring to 2 issues: 

 1. Bodily freedom to pursue his passions/hobbies, profession and have alone time

2. Emotional freedom to be who he’s and never be criticized or judged 

 A query to ask your self is – How does your man expertise extra freedom on account of your relationship? Does he really feel like he will be himself and be susceptible with you? Does he really feel like he can state his wants and needs and never be flooded with destructive emotion?

A person’s best worry is lack of freedom and changing into emotionally overloaded by your wants and emotions. Experiencing these fears in a relationship make a person really feel much less freedom in his life and subsequently make a person immune to need extra or give extra in a relationship. 

The one means for a Goddess to permit a person to really feel freedom is for her to really feel full and entire in her personal life with or with out him. Which means she is centered and in contact together with her emotions. A Goddess makes a person be at liberty as a result of she will be able to talk her wants and never overwhelm him. She is in tune with herself and might have a troublesome dialog with out blame and criticism. She will be able to take “No” for a solution and  soothe herself whereas preserving her coronary heart smooth and open. This makes a person really feel like he doesn’t should be accountable for a girl’s emotions on a regular basis and stroll on egg shells to not upset her.  A Goddess has her personal plans if she just isn’t invited someplace. She has an fascinating life that offers her one thing to give attention to and put her vitality into. All of this stuff make a person be at liberty. He feels free to be himself and in flip impressed to be a greater man – a girl’s hero.