Hello Lovely Goddess Friends,First, let me say I hope everyone is doing okay and feeling safe. This virus and all the fear and changes are mentally and emotionally taking a toll on us all. This is especially true if you are a feminine woman who feels deeply. If you are feeling scared and anxious I recommend you go into your body and feel those feelings with focus and awareness. Then when possible let them go returning yourself to the present moment with an open heart and giving spirit. The world and its people need unity and loving energy to heal. I know most of us are locked in our homes and we feel helpless, but remember we have the power to love. Love those who you are with and reach out to those in need. I pray that this passes quickly so we can move on and live differently now that we realize how precious life and freedom is. While you are home it is always a good thing to continue your Goddess work. Therefore, I have some new info. to share.

Hello Beautiful Goddesses,Well, I will start off with an update on El Guapo (husband). He still is as dreamy and as fabulous as ever!! He is back home for good and working hard. He absolutely killed it (in a good way) on Valentine’s day and my birthday. I have never felt so romanced, loved, special, and wanted. I got chocolates, a card with a written heartfelt declaration of love, beautiful roses delivered, jewelry, Airpod pros, a surprise romantic dinner, lots of kisses etc.. and a shopping spree!!! Seriously??? It was AMAZING!!! With that said, there is not one day that goes by that I do not thank him for his hard work and sweet loving gestures. This interplay of energy we have is how I know living from your feminine energy will bring you the relationship of your dreams.

Here are a few more thoughts I had about Valentine’s Day for all you Goddesses of Love!Much Love,Malena💕

Valentine’s Day is just a few days away and I have thought long and hard about what to write. I realized there is really only one thing to say – You have to treat yourself the way you want to be treated. If you are feeling lonely, hopeless, neglected or sad on this day I offer you a simple practice – wake up on Valentine’s Day and deeply surrender to the feeling of disappointment or sadness. Find where in your body it hurts (heart, chest or stomach) and lean into the pain. Then relax, lean in deeper, take a deep breathe and LET GO!!!! Let go of the deep sadness first, then let go of any expectation you have of someone else doing something for you. That doesn’t mean you let go of your desire for romance, but it does mean you release your NEED for someone on this day to make you feel whole and happy. You must be whole and happy first for great love and romance to find you.

Hello Beautiful Goddess!Well, the tornado of transformation has swept me up again. The universe/life/God has plans and wants me to heal EVERYTHING like now! I have not been blogging much for the last few months because I have been busy putting all my blog advice to work. The good news is that my advice works! Thank God! I would never want to advise my blog readers to do something that does not work or benefit their relationship. Without getting into too many personal details, I have been asked by life to Surrender and Trust my man, El Guapo, and life in general. Has it been easy? Absolutely not! In fact, I have found myself on a number of occasions making pleas to the universe to lighten up my enlightenment training. I really feel like life is supposed to feel good and flow, and I am determined to figure it out. Since our intimate relationships are where most of our pain comes from, I always begin there first.

Hello Goddesses, The Art of Loving A Man is now on Instagram!Please go check it out and follow! I will be posting unique content to my Instagram and Facebook pages so make sure to give them a follow. 💕

Hello beautiful Goddesses,I just wanted to share an email I sent a client after she expressed her concern that her man was pulling away. I dont think I need to share her particular details because at the end of the day my guidance can be used for most situations. Hope this touches someone who needd to hear these words. See below

Surrender to the masculine force/energy of your manLove yourself more than your manKnow your emotional triggers

El Guapo (my husband) is back! He has been working out of town for 2 years and I can’t believe I emotionally survived this long. Well, actually I can believe it because I worked my tail off pushing through the fire of my abandonment triggers while he was gone. I know life sent me this experience (having a husband work out of town) so I could clean out the dark corners in my heart where I stored unhealed energy and guess what…. I DID IT! With some tears and a few whiney moments, I mastered it. I know I did the emotional work because having him home feels AMAZING, yet I felt amazing while he was gone too. Having him home now feels like icing on my cake! It especially feels good to have that strong masculine energy back in the house and in my day to day life. I love that he drives me around, worries about the dog, buys me coffee, helps the kids with math homework, puts up the Christmas tree, hires the handyman and asks me about my day each night before bed. I get to relax in his strength and guidance.

Hello Goddesses!It’s finally here! The Art of Loving a Man eBookThis guide contains over 150 points on the art of loving a man for a feminine woman. After many years of my own failed relationships and heartbreaks, I discovered there is another way to love a man. I uncovered the secrets of love that I now share with you.