Hello Goddesses,It’s a new year and I am excited about all the potential for change and growth for us beautiful women. Today, I want to talk about feminine vulnerability and what that looks like with a masculine man. Let me first say that I believe some women use feminine vulnerability way too early and with the wrong men. They use it with men that they have not formed an emotional bond with and with men that are not really showing signs of strong interest. This is when it backfires. When it is used in the wrong way, vulnerability becomes a method to control men as a woman tries to produce a desired outcome. This is not real feminine vulnerability. This is masculine controlling energy, disguised as the Feminine.

I was coaching a client the other day, and she was analyzing a man’s behavior, trying to determine if he might be more serious about her. I gently stopped her and told her to stop trying to figure it out and dream bigger. I told her to imagine having a man that was clear and direct with how he felt about her and his plans for their future. She seemed stunned for a moment. It did not dawn on her that this was even an option.

My husband (El Guapo) told me the other day that when he looks at me, he gets butterflies in his stomach. That was the sweetest thing I’ve ever heard and it made me feel so good. I have come so far in my experience in love. I have worked so hard on my healing, and my life reflects this beautifully. If I had to tell my readers what the most important step I have taken is, it would be learning how to feel my painful emotions and learning to make myself feel love and joy from deep within myself, without needing anything to change on the outside (people, places, things.) I am the master of my world.