Arguing. I hate arguing. I hate arguing with people I love, with people I need to get along with, I hate arguing with anybody. Especially I hate arguing with my boyfriend. Well, ok, the word hate is not the correct word. The right word is: I hated arguing. I hated arguing in the past. But I must say since I changed my point of view referring to arguing, I do think in the meantime that arguing with my partner isn’t as bad as I always thought it was. The reason for my mind shift is that I have realized arguing does not only have negative sides, no, it can also bring us positive things, too.