THE MOST IMPORTANT WORK IS INSIDE YOUR OWN HEART     As I have mentioned before on this blog, one relationship coach that has changed my life is Christian Carter. His programs are amazing and well worth the money. The first time I read his e-book, Catch Him and Keep Him, I cringed when I saw all the ways I was pushing men and love away. I always pointed the finger outside myself, blaming men and how incompetent they were, but Christian Carter’s work helped me turn the focus inward. After reading his e-book  I was forced to look at the ways I contributed to the breakdown of my relationships. I now believe inner work for a woman is the most important goal and the only thing that will produce positive change in her love life. I learned it is not your responsibility to change what another person is doing or not doing. It is your responsibility to see what part you play, find out what walls and defenses you have and to learn your own lessons. So with that said, I am reprinting a portion of Christian’s e-book here. If you like it check out his website at – www.catchhimandkeephim.com. 

Update from June 9th post: I received a text this morning from El Guapo,          El Guapo – “Do you think I can see you again tonight”