Hello Beautiful Goddesses,Let me begin this blog by saying WTF! This month, I have experienced such a big trigger that I can barely find my center. My inner Goddess is weak, yet still alive while stumbling to stay on her throne. Well, it wouldn’t be fair if I didn’t share the juicy details. So here it goes. The background story is this – My wonderful, amazing, king of cherishing me husband, El Guapo, has not always made the best financial decisions in his life. In fact, on a number of occasions, he has taken us on a financial roller coaster. Yet, with my love and support and his strength and determination, he has self-corrected and made amends. He has done a lot of inner work these last few years and has made some big, beautiful changes. He has said, “I find the strength to change and be better because of how you love me.” It feels wonderful that I am his inspiration for becoming a better man.

I have a new obsession! Well, an old, new obsession. His name is John Gray and he is an old-school relationship coach. He wrote the famous book, “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus” in 1992. He has tons of recent Youtube videos that are so enlightening.

Hello Beautiful Goddesses,Life is good! I am doing well enjoying life’s up and downs – I have a teenager – and still learning more about this wonderful experience called intimate romantic love. My husband, El Guapo, could not be more heavenly. I recently had an outpatient procedure (eardrum surgery) and he was amazing! He took the day off from work and drove me to the hospital, handled the hospital admission, and then went home and took the kids to lunch. He picked me up after and drove me back to our home, where I walked in to find a beautiful spring wildflower arrangement and “Get Well” balloons in the bedroom. He then took care of all the house and kid details for the night, and he even washed dishes while I laid in bed. I could not ask for a better man!

Today, I want to give a sneak peek into my life as a feminine energy woman. I want to share with you the beautiful exchanges I share with my masculine husband and also my internal struggles. I would say the most difficult thing for a feminine woman is learning when to not control a situation with her man and/or try to outsmart him with her opinions and “I can do it better attitude.”

Hello Beautiful Goddesses,I have been struggling with what to write about for this Valentine’s Day. Maybe it’s the pandemic or the continued unraveling of intimate relationships that I see so often that has me feeling a bit sad. What I do know is that if you do not have a special someone to make you feel special on this day, then you must do it for yourself.

Hello Beautiful Goddesses,I have been wanting to post more teachings from one of my favorite relationship coaches, Dr. Pat Allen. She is a pioneer in feminine and masculine energy dynamics. Her teachings are life-changing. Today, I will be posting an excerpt from her book entitled, “Getting To I do.”

I was coaching a client the other day, and she was analyzing a man’s behavior, trying to determine if he might be more serious about her. I gently stopped her and told her to stop trying to figure it out and dream bigger. I told her to imagine having a man that was clear and direct with how he felt about her and his plans for their future. She seemed stunned for a moment. It did not dawn on her that this was even an option.

Hello Goddesses,It’s a new year and I am excited about all the potential for change and growth for us beautiful women. Today, I want to talk about feminine vulnerability and what that looks like with a masculine man. Let me first say that I believe some women use feminine vulnerability way too early and with the wrong men. They use it with men that they have not formed an emotional bond with and with men that are not really showing signs of strong interest. This is when it backfires. When it is used in the wrong way, vulnerability becomes a method to control men as a woman tries to produce a desired outcome. This is not real feminine vulnerability. This is masculine controlling energy, disguised as the Feminine.

My husband (El Guapo) told me the other day that when he looks at me, he gets butterflies in his stomach. That was the sweetest thing I’ve ever heard and it made me feel so good. I have come so far in my experience in love. I have worked so hard on my healing, and my life reflects this beautifully. If I had to tell my readers what the most important step I have taken is, it would be learning how to feel my painful emotions and learning to make myself feel love and joy from deep within myself, without needing anything to change on the outside (people, places, things.) I am the master of my world.

Sometimes, I think too long and hard about what to write. I always want to bring my readers something new, some exciting ideas, or healing techniques. Today, I decided I am going to share four secret things that work like magic in my relationship/marriage. I say secrets because the truth is many women do not know about them and those that do rarely put them into practice.

Hello Goddesses,Hope everyone is doing well, growing and evolving through their relationships. Life is good for me. I just had my 3 year wedding anniversary and it was everything I could have dreamed of – roses, jewelry, dinner with ocean view and wonderful sexy time 🤫. I deserve all of it and openly received like a feminine woman. I especially felt good about receiving, given all the hard emotional and spiritual work I do each day and my dedication to feminine and masculine energy principles. I know my relationship goals and I stay steady on my Goddess path. My main work is still working through emotional blockages by being present, feeling sensations, stilling my mind, and letting energy pass and transmute. It’s an amazing practice that has incredible results. For today, I am posting a link to a podcast I did last week for “Kev The Coach.” He is a great men’s coach and really genuine in his desire to help men do relationships better. Check it out below. Between you and me, podcasts make me nervous. I always feel like I have so much to share and so little time.